Profile of a stripper

You know, before this crazy ride began I thought all strippers were 18-22 years old, single, trying to make money to support their habit. I was wrong. There are over 3,400 strippers registered in Toronto (this does not include any of the GTA burbs because they do not have to register). Out of the 3,400 there are conservatively 30% of them over the age of 30. It seems any that I have met do not have the drug abuse stories to tell, more of them have bills to pay, morgages, kids to support, and several have dead beat boyfriends to support as well.

Not as glamorous as I envisioned in my dreams growing up..

Moving forward

So she actually forgave me for the lie! She made me promise there were no more shoes to drop. We did struggle for many weeks going back and forth about how I had deceived her, but she is an incredible woman and saw that we did have a future together. In my own stupidity, I let the relationship continue with another shoe yet to drop. I could not help it, I recovered from my lie and we were "like two peas in a pod", I just could not bring myself to add more conflict at this time.

Oh, she did tell me at this time she loved me too! From this point on we could not be separated, the hours of talking on the phone when we were apart grew even more, I drove crazy amounts of km just to see her for a few hours. I would drive 2 hours after work to get to her place, she would get home from the club around 2:00 in the morning, then I would have to get up at 4:00 in the morning to get to work on time. I could only keep this up for so long, I knew it, but I was totally captivated by her (this is why she was so good at her job...she has this effect on men...later on this becomes another challenge in our relationship...)